Male same-sex couples
Starting a family together is an exciting step. At Bourn Hall, we are proud to support gay couples with tailored fertility treatments designed to meet your unique needs. For male same-sex couples, this includes options such as surrogacy and sperm donation, with specialist guidance throughout your journey.
You’ll have choices to make along the way, but you won’t have to make them alone – our expert team will guide you through every stage, helping you feel informed, supported and confident as you take each step toward parenthood.
Starting your fertility journey
Fertility testing options
When you and your partner begin thinking about starting a family together, the first step is understanding your fertility health as a couple. Fertility testing offers valuable insights and provides peace of mind. It can guide your decisions about whether to start your family now or consider options for preserving your fertility for the future.
At Bourn Hall, we offer dedicated fertility testing tailored to male same-sex couples. Our tests are simple, straightforward and designed to give you clear, reliable insights into your fertility health.
Sperm testing provides a comprehensive overview of your fertility. A semen sample can be collected either at home or in a private space at our clinic. Our specialists then analyse the sample to assess the sperm count, movement and shape.
If any irregularities are detected, our team will explain your results in plain, supportive language and guide you through the next steps.
At Bourn Hall, we’re proud to support male same-sex couples in creating their families. We understand that every journey to parenthood is unique, and we’re here to provide expert guidance, compassionate care and a welcoming environment where you always feel informed and supported.
Here’s how we help you on your journey:
- Personalised fertility pathways tailored to your needs and goals
- Access to trusted donor and surrogacy programmes
- Specialist support at every step, from treatment to emotional wellbeing
- Inclusive, respectful care for all couples, recognising every family is unique
- Transparent pricing and flexible funding options
Every family looks different, and we’re proud to support all paths to parenthood with kindness, expertise and respect.
| Assessment type | Assessment method | Prep for Treatment |
|---|---|---|
| Semen analysis | Microscopic analysis of semen samples | |
| AMH Blood test | Assessment of your ovarian reserve | |
| TSH Blood test | Assessment of your thyroid stimulating hormone | |
| Anti TPO blood test | Measures antibodies against thyroid peroxidase | |
| Free 30-minute nutrition consultation | Appointment with nutritionist | |
| Free 60-minute nutrition consultation | Appointment with nutritionist | |
| Pelvic scan | Trans-vaginal ultrasound scan | |
| Fertility Consultation | Consult with fertility specialist | |
| Personalised doctor-written report | Analysis by fertility specialist | |
| £715 |
Fertility treatments
Building a family as a male same-sex couple may feel like a complex journey, but with the right fertility treatment and compassionate guidance, parenthood is entirely possible.
You’ll need donor eggs, which can come from either a known or anonymous donor. Our team will guide you through both options with care and sensitivity. If you choose an anonymous donor, we can help you find the right match through our trusted and carefully regulated egg donor programme.
The donor eggs are fertilised through in vitro fertilisation (IVF), using either your or your partner’s sperm. Once the embryos are ready, they are transferred to a surrogate, who will carry the pregnancy on your behalf.
We’ll support you every step of the way, from choosing your donor and treatment pathway to understanding the legal and emotional aspects of the process.
Private IVF treatment
A treatment where eggs are fertilised by sperm in a lab, then transferred to the womb, offering hope to individuals or couples facing difficulties conceiving naturally.
IVF with Donor Embryos
A treatment involving the creation and use of embryos from frozen eggs and sperm, providing future opportunities for pregnancy and family building through advanced reproductive technology.
Intracytoplasmic Sperm Injection (ICSI)
Sometimes conventional IVF needs a helping hand. Intracytoplasmic Sperm Injection (ICSI) is a lab technique that may be appropriate for you, if your sperm needs a bit of extra help to achieve successful fertilisation.
Intrauterine Insemination (IUI)
A fertility treatment where sperm is placed directly into the womb during ovulation, helping to increase the likelihood of sperm reaching and fertilising an egg.
Preimplantation genetic testing for aneuploidy (PGT-A)
A screening method used during IVF to check embryos for chromosomal abnormalities, helping to select the healthiest embryos for transfer, enhancing the chances of a successful pregnancy.
Specialist services
Andrology
Our dedicated andrology clinic offers a number of fertility investigations, treatments and preservation methods that are designed
Donor Programme
Having IVF treatment with donor eggs or sperm at one of our East of England clinics could
Fertility Health and Wellbeing
For most people, fertility health and wellbeing will never be an issue. Around 80% of people trying
Surrogacy
In some cases, potential parents need the help of another person to carry and deliver their baby
Fertility preservation options
Preserving your fertility gives you flexibility for the future. Whether you’d like to have a child later in life or are preparing for medical treatment that could affect your fertility, preservation can help keep your options open.
Sperm freezing
A method where sperm is collected, frozen, and stored for future use, giving individuals the option to preserve their fertility, often before medical treatments or for family planning.
Flexible Pricing Options
To help make your treatment affordable and achievable, we offer fixed price treatment package options and a variety of finance solutions for patients looking to spread all or part of the cost of their treatment.
Explore our prices
Discover our prices and finance options, making treatments more accessible for you.
Book a 15 minute Discovery call
Schedule a Discovery call to find out which tests and treatments are right for you.
Fertility funding partners we work with:
We’re incredibly proud of our success rates
At Bourn Hall, you can be assured of the best chances of having a baby within the shortest possible time. If you are under 35, you have a 72% chance of falling pregnant within one year.
*Data from 2025
Younger than 35
If you are under 35, you have a 72% chance of falling pregnant within one year.
35 to 39 years old
If you are 35-37 years old and you continue treatment with Bourn Hall, you have a 64% (58% for 38-39 year olds) chance of getting pregnant (pregnancy seen on scan) within one year.
40+ years old
If you are a female over 40 and you continue treatment with Bourn Hall, you have about a 50% chance of getting pregnant within one year.
Patient reviews
Genuine experiences from real patients. See why so many trust us with their fertility care.
“We went to an open evening at Bourn Hall Wickford and came away feeling really positive about the place. The staff were really friendly and the presentation was clear about the statistics regarding success rates and live birth rates; their data was very transparent. We came away feeling like we would really be looked after.”
Katy and Leigh are parents to Charlie after IVF
Patient 2023
“We chose to make an appointment at Bourn Hall Wickford because of the favourable reviews. When we got there and met the staff they were just so lovely, making us feel welcome and explaining to us what tests would need to be done and what our options were; we just thought ‘yes, let’s get the ball rolling!”
Jess and Fran are mums to Nathan after IVF with donor sperm
Patient 2023
Support at every stage
As one of the UK’s top fertility treatment centres, our values ensure we put our patients first.
Passion
Adaptability
Commitment
Teamwork and Collaboration
Our fertility milestones
1978
The world's first IVF baby
1980
Year founded by IVF pioneers
25000
Babies born through Bourn Hall
Upcoming fertility events
Join our experts at a range of events including support groups, webinars and open evenings.
Learn more about the options available to you, from fertility tests to treatments, and find answers to any questions you might have.
Frequently asked questions
Your questions answered. Find clarity on every step of your fertility journey.
That’s entirely your choice. Some couples decide that one partner will provide sperm, while others choose to fertilise donor eggs with sperm from both partners, allowing shared involvement in the process. We’ll explain each option clearly, helping you decide what feels right for your family.
Yes, you can. The legal process depends on your individual circumstances and whether you’re married or in a civil partnership. Our team will explain the steps you’ll need to take to ensure both partners are recognised as legal parents.
Success rates vary depending on factors such as the age and health of your egg donor and surrogate. At Bourn Hall, we provide clear, personalised information about your individual chances and guide you through treatment options that meet your needs.
Absolutely. Sperm freezing allows you to preserve fertility for later use, whether for family planning or before medical treatment. It’s a straightforward and reliable process that can give you flexibility and peace of mind for the future.